Hello, friends! Welcome to this month’s meeting of the Insecure Writer’s Support Group, a blog hop created by Alex J. Cavanaugh and co-hosted this month by PJ Colando, Kim Lajevardi, Gwen Gardner, Pat Garcia, and Natalie Aguirre. To learn more about this group and to see a list of participating blogs, click here!
Last month, I wrote a post about how very ready I was to get back to writing. I had big plans. Big hopes and dreams. Due to circumstances beyond my control, I’d been on a bit of a creative dry spell, but as soon as those circumstances stopped being so totally out of control, I was eager to get back to writing. And then… nothing. My muse, it seemed, was not going to help me.
When I first started transitioning from writing as a hobby to writing as a job, I got some sage advice from a more experienced writer friend: however long you think it will take to do something, double it. That’s how long it will actually take. I have found that rule of thumb holds up well. On a few occasions, I’ve taken on a project that turned out to be easier and quicker than expected. But that’s rare. In most cases, things really do take twice as long as I expect them to—sometimes more than twice as long.
And that rule of thumb extends to recovery time as well. I don’t have writer’s block. I just need rest (and my muse knows it). So instead of writing, I’ve been recharging my creative batteries. I’ve been re-reading favorite books and re-watching favorite movies. I’ve been trying to reconnect with the stories that made me want to be a writer in the first place.
So recovery is taking a little longer than I expected, and that shouldn’t be a surprise. I still have big plans. I still have big hopes and dreams. They’ll just have to wait a little bit longer.


If I had an actual estimate of how long any particular project would take, I’d never start anything. Happy re-reading!
LikeLiked by 1 person
Thanks! Yeah, I can’t really do super specific estimates, but when I start something I might think it’ll take me a day or two (and then it’ll actually take three or four days).
LikeLiked by 1 person
I remember a friend of mine telling me how long it took to recover from any form of trauma or grief (this was in relation to dating) and it horrified me. Long story short, she was about right, and if I’d accepted what she told me, I could’ve used the time a whole lot better. Sounds like you’ve got great plans for your rest and recovery time. Wise man.
LikeLiked by 1 person
I don’t feel particularly wise at the moment. I’m just trying my best.
LikeLike
You’ll get there. I didn’t write anything for almost four years and then I wrote CassaDark.
LikeLiked by 1 person
We all have dry spells, from time to time. Four years is a pretty long time.
LikeLike
I like the idea of it being recovery time rather than writer’s block. I’ve been struggling with the lack of focus and ability myself so I understand the place you’re in. I hope your muse gets back to talking to you soon.
LikeLiked by 1 person
Oh, I trust my muse will be there the moment I’m ready. 😉
LikeLike
It’s always after I’ve rested, when I’m feeling recharged and the words are pouring out quicker than I can write/type them, that I realize that rest was what I needed all along! Sometimes we can be stubborn in accepting that at first, but best of luck to ya in getting all the rest and recovery you need!
LikeLiked by 1 person
Same. A week or two ago, I was in a very different headspace about this. But I’m close to getting back to writing, I think, and it’s more obvious now that I just needed rest.
LikeLiked by 1 person
There’s a lot to be said for re-connecting with why we love this genre so much and want to add to it. I actually find it helps to read some of the classic stuff that really wasn’t that well written, but was so imaginative it didn’t matter. Along those lines, I recently went back and read one of the Edgar Rice Burroughs Tarzan novels I missed as a kid, after discovering a lot of that material is now on Gutenberg.
Best of luck on the recovery!
LikeLiked by 1 person
You’ve just reminded me that before all this happened, I was planning to read Burroughs’ Mars novels. Thanks for that!
LikeLiked by 1 person
One caveat to reading stuff this old is it can really show its age in terms of gender and race stereotypes. It’s been too long for me to remember, but the setting of the Mars books might muffle that more than in Burroughs’ other material. The good part is few do the guided daydream as well as he does.
LikeLiked by 1 person
With older stuff, I kind of know what I’m getting into. I may roll my eyes when it happens, but I’m usually not surprised by it. The only author who really caught me off guard was H.P. Lovecraft. Even with an older writer, I was not expecting that level of racism.
LikeLiked by 1 person
Recharging your creative juices is so valuable to writing. Enjoy the journey!
LikeLiked by 1 person
Thanks! Yeah, we all need time to recharge now and then.
LikeLike
Your friend was so right – everything about writing takes way longer than you think. Sometimes you need a breather. 🙂
LikeLiked by 1 person
Yeah, it’s a lesson I have had to learn over and over again.
LikeLike
Fill up that up of creativity. Apparently, yours in usually big. 😉
LikeLiked by 1 person
Thanks for noticing! 😉
LikeLiked by 1 person